living our best life – one thing

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Hello wonderful humans, I hope today is treating you well.

My question for you this week is a simple one.  Although I try to keep things upbeat, I have learned that one of the ways to heal to the best of our ability is to accept the present situation and go from there.

So, my question for you today is,  If you were given the chance to do ONE THING that you are no longer are able to do, what would it be, and have you found a suitable replacement?  

living our best life – a perfect day

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I know for many of us, how we can spend our perfect day may have changed over the years.  Even if the activities that we can participate in have changed, we can still enjoy OUR lives to the fullest, especially when we are having a good day!  So my friends, my question for you this week is, “Describe how you would spend your perfect day?”

~ Thank you for taking the time to stop by and comment.  I hope today is treating you well.  

living our best life – acceptance

 

 

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Hello wonderful human beings.

My question for you today is a simple one.  Although I try to keep things upbeat, I have learned through a lot of trial and error that in order for me to heal to the best of my ability, I must first accept my present situation and go from there.  So, my question for you today is, “What has been the most difficult thing for you to accept on your chronic journey?”

 

~ Thank you for stopping by to visit and your willingness to share part of your journey.  

 

living our best life – kindness

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Wishing all of you who care for others a very blessed Mothers’ Day Weekend.

In the spirit of caring for others, my question for you today is, “Since becoming chronically ill, what is one of the greatest acts of kindness you have been shown?”  

 

~ Thank you very much for taking time to stop by and comment.  I deeply appreciate the sharing of ideas that takes place among this communtiy and your interactions are such a joy to participate in. 

May today be kind to you.  ~

living our best life – you

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Today’s question is short and sweet,What is one thing that you have learned about yourself since you have become chronically ill?”

 

~ Thank you very much for stopping by, reading, and leaving a comment.  Please know that sharing a small part of your world means a lot to me and others who read your reflections.    

living our best life – audio blessings

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There are many of us who are blessed to find ourselves with extra time on our hands.  So, my question for this week is, “What is a favorite audiobook, YouTube channel or podcast that you have been enjoying listening to and what makes it so special?”

` Thank you for taking the time to respond!  Wishing each of you health, safety, and blessings beyond your wildest imaginations.  

living our best life – a hundred bucks

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Over the past several weeks I have read about ways that this global situation has brought out the very best and the very worst in people.  But it is comforting to know that all of you amazingly kind, loving, and generous people here on WP go out of your way to help others as you are able.

So my question for you this week is, “If you were given $100, or the equivalent, and you had to give it away, what would you do with it?”

I look forward to reading your awesome responses, and I thank you in advance for your comments.

 

` “You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you.”
― John Bunyan

living our best life – spending money

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Being chronically ill, I tend to worry about money a lot.  I try hard to win over the anxiety by reminding myself that God will work it all out and worrying about it does absolutely no good.  To also help combat my fear of not having enough money, I live a frugal lifestyle.  I make sure my family lives on less and with less in most areas of our lives.

But instead of focusing on what we live without, we can always talk about that later, today’s question focuses on what we do spend money on.   There are psychological benefits to spending money on yourself, even if it is just a little bit, for a pick-me-up.

So, the question this week is:  What is one thing you regularly spend money on that brings joy into your life?  

what would you do?

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I had another post ready to go for today, but after an unusual experience last night,  I wanted to share this instead.

Last evening, four of my family members were heading out to get some groceries.  About 20 minutes from home we hit a very large pothole that instantly blew out 2 tires on our van.  We were thankful it was very close to a church with a well-lit parking lot.

AAA was called and when the tow truck arrived there was not enough room for all of us to leave.  It was decided that my husband would leave with the driver and our van, and my two teenaged daughters and I would stay behind in the parking lot.

We felt blessed that it was above freezing and not raining or snowing.  We all had coats on, something that my teenagers do not always grab on the way out of the house, and there was a blanket in the van.

There were vehicles in the church lot but the building was big and we did not want to start knocking on doors and possibly scare the people inside.  Instead, we decided to just stand and wait.

As we waited under a large light in the front lot, people started to leave the church.  One vehicle after another drove slowly by looking at us, but no one stopped.  We did not look scary, it was a mom with two teenage daughters, all dressed appropriately, other than I had a blanket wrapped around me.  The lack of “hospitality” resulted in a very deep conversation between my daughters and I, something that I will keep between the three of us, but I was really hoping that the people leaving the church would have behaved differently.  Not just because it was a church, but because we were in the country, off a busy road, alone, after dark.

As the last vehicle was leaving, a mom and her teenaged daughter stopped to ask if we needed anything.  I thanked her profusely, explained the situation and reassured her that someone would eventually be back to pick us up.

So, what would you have done in that situation?  (NO judging)  Would you have stopped, or not, and why?